Okay... so I'll admit that this post is a little self-serving. Or at the very least... it's biased.
Well... a few years ago, we started something called the BIG dream gathering... because we knew that EVERYONE has BIG dreams.
Even though many of our BIG dreams get buried or dismissed... we all have 'em.
Well, back in 2006, we got the idea for this thing called a "BIG dream gathering" and we hosted it at our house. We invited a few friends over and asked them to put their BIG dreams on sheets of paper and post them on our walls.
Then we encouraged everyone to walk around and look at each other's dreams to see if they could help out... either by offering an encouraging word, a connection or some support.
Well... the proof is in the response.
We expected 20 or so people to arrive. We had 60+ people come that first night.
We expected the gathering to last a few hours. It wound up lasting a week!
Yup. The response was overwhelming.
And... again... it's proof positive that we all have BIG dreams.
The challenge is that we can't or don't think about them most of the time.
Some seem impossible. Some seem too big. Some seem too risky. Some seem too expensive.
So... how do real people dream BIG? How do they bust past those feelings and those fears?
Well... as the BIG dream gathering has continued to grow... we've been given a pretty amazing vantage point to see BIG dreams happen to real people. And I ain't going to lie... it's been pretty cool.
What does it boil down to?
- Getting some clarity. We ask everyone who comes to describe at least one of their BIG dreams. Plus, we ask them to tell the world about what they already have in place and what they still need.
- Getting some help. We have everyone put their dreams up on the walls in various categories. (ie. Business, Family/Relationships, Education, Government, Spiritual, etc.) Then, we encourage everyone to go around and look at each other's dreams to offer some encouragement, connections and/or help. It's a bold step when you ask for help... but for a bunch of real people... it's been the most important thing they've done.
- Giving some help. It's always a good feeling to help someone else out. But that feeling is taken to a new level when you help someone with their BIG dream. We've seen everything from someone jumping in to assist a single mom who needed help with her daughter's car, to a venture capitalist who helped a budding biz person with ideation. And... again... I'm still not sure who gets blessed more... the giver or the receiver. The smiles are usually pretty big on both sides.
So... yeah... these simple concepts seem to be at the heart of how real people dream BIG!
How about you?
How do you dream BIG? What do you do to go after those dreams? What's worked for you?
Come on. Become a part of what we call the BIG dream movement... no matter where you live. Get clear. Get some help. And... give some help.
I mean heck... if it ain't us... the freaky cool biz people... then who's gonna do it?
Who's going to get the country and the world to dream BIG again?
And hey... if you're in Des Moines on May 13th... come and dream BIG with us!
Photo credit: Trish Toma-Lark