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Demand to be introduced

 

Download- Meridith Freese writes for young professionals

One of my first meetings as a full-time employee was a lunch meeting at Bravo with my boss Dave Schwartz and the Pleasant Hill Mayor and Kum & Go Sustainability Manager Sara Kurovski. 

We were discussing different topics and getting to know one another, but it was after this conversation that I got one of my first lessons in being a young professional in the real world. As we were leaving Bravo, Dave had stopped to talk to two other people who were in the booth behind us that he knew. I stood there with Sara as we watched him catch up and she leaned over and whispered to me, “Demand to be introduced.” I watched Sara leave my side and introduce herself to the table.

I contemplated the idea that I had stood in the background and watched others' conversations many times before. Why hadn’t I reached out my hand and introduced myself? Was it because I thought I was too young to be in the conversation? Or was it because I was trying to be respectful in letting them have their discussion? Whatever the reasoning, I decided that day that I would no longer be overlooked.

As young professionals, no matter how uncomfortable it may be, we need to be assertive in meeting people. We want people to know who we are and we want them to know that we are here to make as much of a difference as they do. Even now I will still catch myself standing in the background but the difference is, I notice it and I am able to correct it. I have realized that by extending my hand for an introduction, I am allowing myself to grow my network and quite possibly open a door for opportunities later.

Not only will you empower yourself by overcoming your fear, but the ones you are reaching out to will respect you more. You deserve to be in the conversation as much as anyone. Demand to be introduced.  

171A6085-Meridith Freese is the marketing manager for the West Des Moines Chamber of Commerce and the coordinator of New View Young Professionals in West Des Moines.

 

 

 

Comments

Good advice Meridith!!

I like this advice and suspect this is harder for women to do as we do not want to be perceived as "pushy." I say change that thinking to "Put yourself forward."

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